Term vs Whole Life Insurance: Which Should I Buy?
Recommendation
Term life wins for roughly 95% of households. It's 5–15× cheaper per dollar of coverage and matches the actual need (covering income years until kids and mortgage are settled). Whole life is defensible only in narrow estate-planning cases (estates above ~$13M federal exemption, special-needs trusts) where the permanent death benefit serves a specific purpose buy-term-and-invest-the-difference can't match.
What would flip the answer
| If this is true… | …lean toward | Why |
|---|---|---|
| Have dependents and a mortgage | Term life insurance | 30-year term covers the highest-need years cheaply. |
| Net worth >$13M (federal estate-tax exposure) | Whole life insurance | Permanent death benefit funds estate tax. |
| Have a special-needs dependent | Whole life insurance | Permanent coverage funds the trust regardless of when you die. |
| Sold whole life by a commission agent | Term life insurance | Commission incentive is why it was suggested, not the math. |
| Want forced savings | Term life insurance | 401(k)/IRA beats whole life on return after fees. |
| Healthy and under 50 | Term life insurance | Term premiums are near-trivial; whole life is overkill. |
Worked example: 35-year-old non-smoker, $500k coverage
20-year term: about $25–$35/month. Total over 20 years: $6,000–$8,400.
Whole life: $400–$500/month for the same $500k coverage. Total over 20 years: $96,000–$120,000.
The $90,000+ difference, invested at 7% real return, would grow to roughly $200,000. Buy-term-invest-the-difference produces a larger nest egg AND $500k of death-benefit coverage during the high-need years.
Why whole life is so heavily marketed
Whole life pays first-year commissions of 50–100% of premium to the selling agent, far higher than term (typically 30–40% in year one only). This is why your friend who 'just got their insurance license' calls you about whole life.
Frequently Asked Questions
- What about indexed universal life (IUL)?
- Same critique as whole life with extra layers of complexity. IUL projections rely on illustrated returns that rarely materialize. Stick with term + Roth IRA + 401(k) unless a fee-only fiduciary (not a commissioned agent) demonstrates IUL is necessary.
- Should I convert term to whole later?
- Convertible term policies allow this. Useful if you develop a serious illness mid-term and would otherwise be uninsurable; rarely useful otherwise.
- Is my work-provided life insurance enough?
- Usually not. Employer coverage is typically 1–2× salary, far less than the 10× rule. Treat it as a small bonus; buy a personal term policy for the real coverage need.
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